Archive for March, 2009

Are You Really Committed AND Honest With Yourself

Tuesday, March 31st, 2009

Last week I turned 50.

As I’m sure happens to many upon reaching the
“half-century mark” I spent time asking myself if I was
really doing the things that I wanted to “spend” my life
doing.

At my birthday party in Orlando I also had a number of
very proactive friends kick me into action.

One of them was a friend who was 103 pounds overweight
(and a heavy drinker) as a teenager. She managed to lose
over those pounds in her early 20’s (and stop drinking),
and kept has it off for over 21 YEARS.

I spent the weekend with a number of other equally as
impressive friends… “do-ers.”

Laura Fenamore is the one who lost the weight and she
shared with my birthday bash attendees that it’s not
about the weight. It’s about learning to love yourself.

Laura shared that when you really care about yourself,
the pounds really melt off effortlessly… and they
stay off, because you learn to love YOU.

Laura lost those 103 pounds in just one year!

Please take a minute to check out Laura now at:
http://WillieCrawford.com/Laura/

Laura and over 2 dozen other friends also issued
another challenge to me. They asked…

“If not now, then when?”

And they challenged me, and the other birthday party
attendees to be honest with ourselves.

You can fool the outside world, and I guess that’s ok.

However, When you delude or lie to yourself - that’s sad.

I decided this past weekend to make the rest of my life
different… at least living it on my terms.

I challenge you to do the same. Decide that today is
when you’ll at least take an honest look at what’s
happening to you.

Start by checking out Laura’s story at:
http://WillieCrawford.com/Laura/

Willie

Secret Confirmed At Willie Crawford’s Birthday Bash

Sunday, March 29th, 2009

We’re into Day-3 of my Birthday Bash Seminar in
Orlando, Florida, and it’s been an incredible weekend!

The roast on Friday night was humbling.

The speakers have been more amazing than at any seminar
I have ever attended.

Attendees have sat around networking and deal-making
late into the evening every night thus far.

Friday night/Saturday morning I didn’t get to bed until
3:30am

Here’s a “secret” that’s been confirmed over and over
again by numerous people that I’ve talked with this
weekend…

The real wealth is currently in working with offline
businesses. It’s in offering your internet marketing
expertise to local struggling businesses.

Local business owners have budgets set aside for
promoting and growing their businesses… and they
need you.

David Preston (the emcee for the weekend) and I did an
interview of this very topic a year ago. That’s because
that IS where we generate a major percentage of our
incomes.

You can find that interview at:
http://HelpingOfflineBusinesses.com

Check it out… I have to get back to the birthday
bash :-)

Willie

Positive Self-Talk Phrases For Every Day Of The Week

Sunday, March 29th, 2009





Positive Self-Talk


Mon: How much thought do we give to what we say and what it really means in this life?  I am a HUGE proponent of positive self-talk, as any of my hundreds of clients and course participants can tell you.  There’s simply no missing that our bodies are a reflection of our minds.  Now this is probably a HUGE contradiction to what you might have learned, heard and grown to believe by this point in your life.  The billion-dollar weight loss industry REALLY wants us all to believe that it works the opposite way – that when our BODIES are okay (translated slender), then our minds will follow suit – that there’s no connection between how you take care of yourself and your health or beauty.

 

Do you think that’s working?  I mean really.  Look around.  Just in case you have not noticed, we are losing the battle to create healthy bodies – and it hurts us inside AND out.

 

So learning a new way to live – one that creates enough self-care and positive self-talk is really important.  But how are we to know which conversations are positive and which ones are negative? 

 

I have four FAVORITE sayings that could be interpreted all different ways. However, I want to use this forum to have a great discussion on positivity, discernment and self love!

 

No way!  I love the expression NO WAY. Ask any of my friends and they will tell you.  Why?  Because, all over the place, it expresses a sense of awe and wonder.  You lost ten pounds? NO WAY!  You got your MBA?  NO WAY!  You ran an extra mile?  WOW, NO WAY!  What NO WAY is saying is YES WAY…it is fun and affirming is what it is…You get the picture. YES WAY!

 

Tues:  You’re kidding me?  Equally ambiguous and amazing is the phrase, “Are you kidding me?”  I love this phrase, because like all questions, it gets the dialogue started – the other guy is almost compelled to say, “Nope, it’s true.”  It takes what is obviously wonderful news and validates it back and forth between two people and then it continues the conversation.  It says, I want to hear more!  “I stopped being afraid of my fat rear and took an aerobics class.”  “Wow, you’re kidding me?” 

 

Wed: No worries.  I love the phrase NO WORRIES because it immediately releases another human being from whatever albatross is around their neck (and remember, we often EAT over those things that weigh us down with shame, blame or worry).  It is bigger than don’t worry about it somehow, and yet it does not invalidate the person’s struggle.  It simply says that in this moment, between you and I, you may let go of your burden.  No worries. I picked up NO WORRIES when I was in Australia and it somehow followed me back up here from down under. I notice more and more people in America saying NO WORRIES instead of NO PROBLEM.

 

Thurs:  Get out (of here)!   Okay, if you know me personally, my favorite saying is GET OUT (some times I add the “of here”)!  It is as sweet and funny as an expression could be, because I don’t want anyone to get out!  I want everyone to come on in and join the party!  So there’s kind of an inside joke there.  For me, it’s the combination of all of the above sayings with a little twist of humor.  As I’ve learned with twenty-one years of maintaining a 100-pound weight loss, HUMOR is a wonderful tool in ANY situation.  Think of Elaine in Seinfeld. How many times did she scream, “GET OUT OF HERE” as we all cracked up? You must watch some old Seinfeld episodes if you have not watched the show. Elaine is a hoot and this is one of her signature lines.

 

Fri:  The bottom line is that what we say is SO important.  It’s important to the person we’re speaking with, but it’s even MORE important to us.  Every word is like a bite of food.  Ask yourself today:  “Am I feeding myself healthy, positive words?  Or am I filling my belly with negative self-talk and starving my heart and soul?”  The truth is that the more positive we are, the better our lives will be, inside and out.

 

Learn more about positive self-talk and how to truly love your body. Sign up for my Body Image Mastery course and be one of the first people to join my new community here: http://www.easywebautomation.com/app/?Clk=2928967 


Thank You Very Much For The Birthday Wishes

Thursday, March 26th, 2009

I awakened this morning to hundreds of emails wishing
me a happy 50th birthday.  When I logged into Twitter
I also saw more there greetings that I could ever
respond to individually.

So, a quick note to say thank you to everyone. My
50th is today, and I’ll spend Friday - Monday
celebrating with friends here in Orlando, Florida.

You ARE invited to the celebration too, and it’s not
too late to RSVP.  You can do that at:
http://BirthdayBashSeminar.com

Friday - Sunday a dozen of my most-trusted friends will
be teaching some of their very best internet marketing
techniques, and “secrets” to birthday bash attendees.
We also have a roast scheduled for Friday night.

Throughtout the weekend I’ll spend most of my time just
getting to know birthday bash attendees, learning about
your projects, your challenges, and just more about you.

I do hope that you can attend. If you’re anywhere near
Orlando, this can be a pivotal weekend for you!

Please register now at:  http://BirthdayBashSeminar.com

Willie

I’m Tired Of The Hype Too

Tuesday, March 24th, 2009

What is the true power of “social networks”  ?

That seems to be gaining more and more buzz on the
net today. Why do you think it’s gaining so much credence?

Is it a passing trend  , or is it here to stay?

My experience tells me that it’s here to stay, and here’s
why that’s great news.

The days of people buying products just because the page
is “hypey” enough to sell them is over. Todays market is
onto that. (Finally)

Social “proof” and real relationship *MARKETING* is the
coming wave, and it’s about time  !

People have been burned so much in the past that they
just about have to know you in order to press the submit
button now.

That means that there is about to be a great
shift on the net. From those that will do or say anything
for the moolah, to those that actually care about YOU.

“Socializing” is not new  . It’s been around
for centuries, because it WORKS! Here’s a prime example:

http://BirthdayBashSeminar.com

This is perfect example of “social networking” at it’s best.

Why?

Because it’s a real chance for everyday people like you to
socialize with those of us who are already where we need to be.

Think of what it would mean to you if just ONE of the masters
there took a liking to you, just for being you.

Your entire life would change  .

Just about every one of us speaking at this special event
started out just like you. We scraped to get there and then
met the ONE person that changed our life forever.

That can happen for you too  , but you have to
actually be there for that to take place.

When you get there be sure to introduce yourself to me and
share your ideas. I’ll be there to help as many people as I
can. That’s why I’m going.

http://BirthdayBashSeminar.com

Get a jump on the new wave  . The “new” wave is
not new at all. It has worked for centuries.

That’s the true power of “social networking”.

I look forward to meeting you at this incredible event.

Your friend,

Willie

Please Join Us On The Radio Today at 4-5pm EST

Friday, March 20th, 2009

Today at 4-5pm EST, many of the attendees from
my upcoming birthday party will gather on the
radio to discuss how to get the most out of that
weekend.

On March 26th, I turn 50. To celebrate, we are
having a party, seminar, and networking
extravaganza, March 27th - 29th in Orlando.

It’s not too later for you to register. You can
do that at: http://WillieCrawford.com/BirthdayBash/

Please tune in today as we discuss how to get the
most out of this event (or similar events). You’re
guaranteed to learn something powerful.

Tune in at:  http://BlogTalkRadio.com/WillieCrawford/

Thank you,

Willie

The Single GREATEST Internet Marketing Secret

Wednesday, March 18th, 2009

The Single GREATEST Internet Marketing Secret
Copyright 2009 by Willie Crawford

During my 12 1/2 years online I’ve heard numerous people
say “There are no secrets in Internet marketing.” They
say that primarily because they haven’t discovered any
that radically changed their world.

I believe that there are internet marketing secrets…
things that the really successful marketers know and
do that average and failing marketers don’t.  Many of
these can be readily observed, so while they are secrets
they’re not hidden.

Often, it’s those things staring us right in the face
that are the biggest keys to success. The key is that
successful people don’t discount those things just
because they are obvious.

So, what IS the biggest secret, or key to online success,
that I’ve discovered in the past 12 1/2 years?

It’s that people really do buy from people that they know,
like and trust.

They also do joint ventures with people that they know,
like and trust.

The secret is that we all like to help “our friends.” That
also means that the secret is to be a genuine friend.

The secret is that while you may be trying to reach as
many customers as you can, if you don’t actually form some
deep one-on-one relationships, your business probably won’t
grow very much.

In an email, a year ago, a well-known internet marketer
predicted a shakeout in the industry. His ominous warning
was that the key to your survival would be to form
strategic alliances.

Fast-forward a year, and an internet marketing friend that
I had coffee with recently commented with disdain on “the
guru club.”  Like many, this friend had noticed that unless
you are a member of that circle, it’s very difficult to
get them to promote one of your products.

A core group of top Internet marketers has formed a
strategic alliance and do promote mostly each other’s
products.  It’s not impossible for an “outsider” to get a
product promoted by them but it IS difficult.

What’s the solution to that problem?

It’s really quite simple.  You spend time getting to know
a few like-minded Internet marketers and you form you OWN
“guru club” or “mastermind group” or just a group of
marketers who share similar values. Then, you work together
on projects where appropriate.

That very concept is what caused me to start a membership
website called “The Internet Marketing Inner Circle” back
in 2006.   I actually interviewed most of the top
internet marketers of the day, asking what their success
secrets were. I also asked them very bluntly, how does an
unknown get to joint venture with them.

Every single one of those very successful marketers
indicated that the key is to form a true relationship with
them first. They all admitted that, like most humans, they
preferred helping their friends.

How do you REALLY get to know other online marketers
anyway?

The single best way is to attend seminars or mastermind
sessions with them.  I’ve probably attended over 50
Internet marketing seminars since 2002. December 2002 was
when I attended my first one.  That event completely
changed my Internet marketing path.  I walked away from
that seminar CONNECTED with Dr. Bob Silber, Marty Foley,
Ramon Williamson, John Reese, Fred Gleeck, Jonathan Mizel,
Frank Garon, and a few others.

Those individuals all mentored me, teaching me things
that it would have taken me a very long time to discover
on my own. Many of them also did joint ventures with me…
I co-created products with many of them :-)

So, the secret is to get out and actually meet a few
fellow marketers face to face.  Look a few people in the
eye, and get a feel for whether or not they are the people
that you’d like to form long-term business relationships
with. Then follow-up with them and build those true
relationships.

I’m hosting the ideal gathering to get you started the
weekend of March 27th - 29th, in Orlando, Florida. I’m
turning 50 years old, and many of my friends will be
gathering for a HUGE birthday celebration.  A dozen of my
friends, people like Stephen Pierce, Lynn Terry, and Mark
Hendricks, will be actually teaching some of their secrets
formally… from the stage.

You are invited to this gathering where I will facilitate
as many introductions as practical.

You’ll leave that weekend knowing several hundred online
marketers, and more importantly, several hundred online
marketers will know you.

If you don’t appreciate the power of that, let me share that
when busy people don’t know you, it’s difficult just getting
their attention. When they really KNOW you, your emails
jump out at them in their inboxes, and they happily read them.

Isn’t that true of how you read emails.  Don’t you read those
from your friends with a smile on your face?

So, to harness “The Single GREATEST Internet Marketing Secret”
RSVP for my birthday bash now at:
http://WillieCrawford.com/BirthdayBash/

It’s only a week away, and we’re trying to get a final count
to plan for a roast among other things. Go ahead and sign up
now:  http://WillieCrawford.com/BirthdayBash/

I’ll see you in Orlando. Bring business cards, a digital
camera, and your projects.  Come prepared to form some true
business relationships :-)

Willie Crawford has been helping others build successful
online businesses since 1996. Many of today’s leading
marketers are his students.  Tap into their collective wisdom
and friendship at http://WillieCrawford.com/BirthdayBash/

Willie

Eloquent Question - “Does your web-traffic SUCK?”

Sunday, March 15th, 2009

Does your web-traffic SUCK?

You’re not selling anything because you don’t
have any traffic. Your site is like an online
ghost-town… sucking away all your hard earned
time and money, and not giving you anything back.

But it’s not your fault…the truth is Web-Traffic
SUCKS!

It sucks because no one has ever taught you how
to find the right traffic tactic for your website.

Instead they tout one-size-fits-all solutions
that work for some, but not me…and probably not
you.

So, while they get rich…your site sucks… all
your money away.

But NO MORE.

–> http://www.webtrafficallstars.com/g.o/10454

Have you reserved your complimentary copy of our
“Web-Traffic All Stars 2009″ book already?

If not, go here now before all 500 copies are
gone…

–> http://www.webtrafficallstars.com/g.o/10454

And get ready to have your traffic challenges
come to a screetching halt forever!

When you reserve your copy, you’ll get it shipped
right to your front door, and in 10 minutes of
going through it, you’ll have 11 of the world’s
best marketers’ most-prized traffic strategies…

You’ll know exactly how to get started with the
PERFECT ONE traffic tactic for you and your
business. Then, you’ll get to watch in awe as
your traffic and sales reach to levels you have
NEVER, EVER, seen! That’s a promise.

Your online business dreams are well within your
reach, and the best part…it’s Nitro’s gift to you:

–> http://www.webtrafficallstars.com/g.o/10454

Remember, if you’re one of the first 500 people,
Nitro is going to give you a COMPLIMENTARY-copy of the
book…

The book that WILL literally change your life and
finally make it possible for you to have that
successful online business you’ve been dreaming
of.

They only have 500 available for the first run, and
they don’t know when it will be made available for
no charge again, so don’t miss it.

–> http://www.webtrafficallstars.com/g.o/10454

Best Regards,

Willie

–> http://www.webtrafficallstars.com/g.o/10454

P.S. If your traffic sucks, or your sales are
low, and you want to take them to a new level,
then this is your ticket… and they are GIVING IT
AWAY to you. There’s not any catch, so reserve one of
the 500 copies available quick before they’re
gone.

–> http://www.webtrafficallstars.com/g.o/10454

Here Are ALL Of My Membership Site Secrets

Sunday, March 15th, 2009

Several times in recent years, I’ve watched big
names release products talking about what a great
money-maker running your own membership sites is.

Being as skeptical as the next person in internet
marketing, I usually stepped back and asked what
are they really teaching, how are they making
THEIR money, and are they doing what they teach.

As often as not, they made MORE money from selling
you a package on how to set up lucrative membership
sites than they did from running their own.

Often, they made BIG bucks from selling you some
over-priced membership site package. With these
expensive  packages they often used scripts that are
available for  free, and that may even be pre-installed
on your hosting account!

They may spend $100 to get their tech guy to configure
the script and pocket the other $2000!

So, I wisely, didn’t bite :-)

Besides… the hardest part is NOT setting up the
site, it’s getting and keeping members!

I did slowly build a number of membership sites
over the year, and some of them did quite well,
and continue to do so. I learned the business in
both “the school of hard knocks” and sitting down
and talking to those operating membership sites
over a beer at a seminar.

I stopped drinking, so I bought them beers, and
when sufficiently lubricated, they shared their
juiciest membership site secrets with me.  I made
notes, and wisely used the things that they freely
taught me :-)

Fast-forward to today and I have a fairly simple
formula for new membership sites. It’s using
Joomla for content management and aMember for
billing and subscription management.

Let me break that down for you…

Content management is just organizing everything.
Having a place to upload, store and grant access
to videos, audios, ebooks, software, forums,
chat rooms, training sessions, etc.  A good CMS also
lets your users interact… which is one of the BIG
things that keeps members around!

The biggest headache in operating many of my
earlier membership sites was actually managing
access to the site.  I used systems where I’d set
up Paypal as my payment processor, and then after
they’d pay, Paypal would deliver members to a page
where they completed registration.

Then month-after-month, they’d pay, and things
would chug along smoothly UNTIL their payment
didn’t go through for some reason. At that point,
Paypal kicked out an email saying a payment failed
and I had to manually log-in to my membership site
control panel and decide whether or not this was
a temporary condition and whether or not to lock
this person out.

Then I discovered a really nice 105-video tutorial
by my long-time friend James Maduk.  In his videos
course, James explains how to integrate aMember with
Joomla.

James explained that with the aMember integration,
when the payment doesn’t go through, Paypal (or any of
60+ other payment processors) talks to aMember and
updates the database. At the appropriate time, the script
automatically locks out the former member.

Doing it manually, I had to either make a note of the
exact date when the person should no longer have
access, or just lock them out when the payment failed.
Amember is smart enough to keep track of that and allow
your members access UNTIL the appropriate date.

You can check out James’ tutorials at:
http://WillieCrawford.com/MembershipSites/

I have actually wanted all 105 videos:-)

I saw the benefit in mastering the topic and simply set
aside the time to do it!

If you already have a membership site up and running,
and want to maybe just switch over to an automated
solution for managing billing and controlling access,
then you may want to just grab a copy of aMember.

Get aMember at: http://WillieCrawford.com/aMember/

I now know aMember inside-out. I could map out how
it works in my sleep.  I gained this total mastery
of the script from watching James’ video tutorials.

I also digested another tutorial series - exclusively
on aMember.

That tutorial told how to integrate aMember with
Paypal, 2CheckOut, Clickbank, 1ShoppingCart, your
own merchant account, and 60+ other payment  management
systems seamlessly.

You can get the aMember tutorial at:
http://WillieCrawford.com/aMemberTutorial/

Back to how I now set up membership sites…

In my “old age,” I’ve grown lazy and risk averse.
So, most of the memberships sites that I now set up
are actually partnerships. I partner with online
marketers and even local business people.

I provide the technical know-how in how to get a
membership site set up in just a few hours that will
run flawlessly for YEARS. I also provide the
marketing know-how that will be necessary to get the
flow of members started.

My partners typically provide ALL of the content.
They also funnel a lot of their contacts, clients,
and list members to the new site (as early members).

I typically turn members into affiliates, so my
sites grow themselves once they get started!

James’ tutorials provide a lot of the business
know-how in getting and keeping members.

James also teaches you how to configure your
membership sites so that your MEMBERS generate the
majority of the content… and your members also
bring in new members and keep old members around.

The TRUTH is that for most poorly managed membership
sites, the average member might stick around for
three months. With a properly managed membership
site, members will stick around for years.

So, yes, running a successful membership site IS
all that it’s cracked up to be. Just imagine having
a site with only 1000 members paying just $20 per
month. If you only have to spend an hour or two
per week on that site, wouldn’t you consider that a
great money-maker.

You could even outsource the management of your site,
and after paying your helpers, you’d still be doing
“OK.”

Anyway, I’ve just shared with you my system for
building and operating lucrative membership sites.
I’ve also shared where I learned what I know, so
that if you prefer going to the source, that’s an
option too.

Willie

Proof I’m A Nice Guy That You Want To Hang Out With :-)

Friday, March 13th, 2009

If you haven’t registered for my birthday bash yet, you
really do need to do it. I and all of my speakers, and
the attendees are VERY approachable.

Attending, and using the event to network and connect
with those who can help you only makes sense.

Here’s what one of my fans had to say about me:

Willie has been a tremendous help to me in ways he
doesn’t even know. I have been following him for a
few years now, taking his sage advice, reading his
blog posts, absorbing his newsletters and ebooks.

I had an off-the-wall question for him and he not
only got back to me within two hours, he answered
the question and gave me an idea to improve what
I was working on.

Don’t do what I did and wait to contact him - I should
have asked for his help long before I did. He’s very
approachable and wants to help us to be successful.

Let him and you’ll be very glad you did.

Melody Brooks
Golden, CO
www.grabmorecustomers.com

Click here to register now.

Willie